Understanding the Power of Charisma

There are only two types of people in the society

The ordinary and the extraordinary, where the latter is somebody who stands out in the crowd and the former is everybody else. So, which one are you?

If you insist to be just an ordinary person, then we don’t have to keep going with this. The average person, hardly recognizable in a crowd, is contented with what he has, settles with being just an option, decides according to the majority, and doesn’t care if nobody misses him if he’s gone.

Hence, if you are this type of person, then there is no need to improve your personality, right? After all, you’re satisfied with being ordinary, with being yourself.

Actually, that would not be a problem if you can stay ordinary for the rest of your life. However, reality assures us that at some point in our lives, each one of us will indeed need to become extraordinary.

No matter how much we want to stay behind the limelight, at one point, the focus will still aim at us.

Hence, we can never avoid being more-than-the-average person. In life, we’ll meet friends and special people, get married, have kids and a family of our own, and do work.

As a friend, a spouse, a parent, and a boss, we can never just be ordinary, because the people who we ought to deal with in life will need our guidance, leadership, care, and love. And we can never give them these things if we’d stay ordinary for the rest of our lives. Don’t we want to give them the best?

 

 

The Power of Charisma
Understanding the Power of Charisma
Being extraordinary
Encarta about Charisma
How Charisma’s Spell Works
Charisma can get other people to notice you
Charisma can make you likeable
Charisma influences
Charisma can bring out the best in you
Charisma and Lifestyle
Essential Elements of Charisma Revealed
SMILE
Developing That Charming Smile
BODY LANGUAGE
Learning to Speak the Language of the Body
GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR
Building on that Positive Sense of Humor
RIENDLINESS
Being Friendly and Sociable
CONFIDENCE
Making You More Confident about Yourself
BEING YOURSELF
How Can You Be True to Yourself?
Enhancing Charisma
Physical Charm
Be presentable at all times
Maintain good personal hygiene
Learn and practice proper posture
Wear a proper scent
Eliminate body-odor
Stay healthy
Smile
Maintain proper hair care
Customize and accessorize
Discard the illusion of fatigue and exhaustion
Finally, bring out that confidence
Intellectual Influence
Always bring a punch line with you
Eliminate negativities
Go on a five-minute vacation once in a while
Always seek, never hide
Equip yourself with relevant ideas
Dream
Desire to win
Make healthy and sound decisions
Be professional at all times
Learn to be enthusiastic
Social Appeal
Don’t forget the simple gestures
Remember who’s who
Look back and sympathize
Hey, listen
Discuss, don’t argue
Make others feel special
Always be available
Don’t be jealous
Stay away from gossips
Take it easy with criticisms
Forgive and forget
Show appreciation
Be thankful
Spiritual Power
Overconfidence
Summary and Conclusion
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